Gender:
FemaleLocation:
ArkansasAge:
15Member Since:
February 20, 2008Answers:
432Last Update:
May 4, 2011Visitors:
33414Favorite Columnists
karenR
Razhie
GilbertMar
AskAlonte
HotSauce
d-rainkrueger
Main Categories:
Fashion and Styles
Nutrition
Love Life
View All
about
advice
I'm 15/F. And i'm dating a guy who is 17. We've been dating for 2 months now, and he's starting to talk about wanting to have sex. I'm still a virgin, and i'm scared to death. I told him I didn't think I was ready yet, and he got kind of aggravated, and said, "that's okay, that's not what i'm in this relationship for anyway" And he's been mentioning it more and more. Any Advice for if i do decide to have sex with him? Or anything else i should do?
I really don't want to lose him.
Woaahhhh slow down there. You say it's only been two months? I think that's kind of a short amount of time to get to know someone well enough to have sex with them. Now, I don't know this guy personally, but it sounds like he may be using you for sex. However, I don't know him so I could be wrong. There are other things to do if you don't want to have sex yet. I'll assume by your age you know what they are, but if not, just type in "alternatives to sex" in google. I think if you give him sex so early, there won't be that much for you and him to look forward to physically. I mean, sex is like the ultimate goal in a relationship, after marriage. If you do it right now, you two might get bored of it and your relationship could end. If he truly cares about you, he will wait until you're ready. Don't let him pressure you into losing your virginity. It is special to keep your virginity for the one you love and it lets them know they matter, so I think you should wait until you know you love him for sure. Goodluck!
-Jessica 15/f
(Rating: 4) great advice :) thank you so much!