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Do girls really play hard to get when they know that you are on to them or somewhat you like them?
I have this crush on a girl and we've been hanging out together. I haven't told her that I have feelings for her... but I think she already had a clue that I'm courting her or I'm in love with her or something. Do they get pissed off when you don't say that you're courting them or is she playing hard to get...thanks
Well, as the person below me stated, all girls are different. I, for example, don't play hard to get because some boys are clueless and just think I'm not interested in them lol. However, I assume it would be the more daring, prettier girls that would play hard to get, because they know they could get by with it because boys will always be chasing them. If she's trying to avoid you, ignoring your calls/texts/messages, she's probably just not interested. It gets pretty obvious when she continues to be "busy". However, if you two run into each other every once in a while, or if she says something like "Well, I'm busy this friday, but next saturday is good", or if she answers some of your calls/texts/messages, or if she laughs a lot around you, she might just be playing hard to get. It might help if, when she says something like "I'm busy this friday", you ask what she is doing that is making her busy. If she gives you a reasonable excuse, she's probably not interested. Girls playing hard to get usually try to be more mysterious about something like that and say "oh I've just got something I need to do" or something along those lines. However, it could also be completely different. All girls are different, all girls play hard to get differently. I think the best thing for you to do is just keep at her because persistance is the key. That's why most of my friends go out with the boys they do, because after the boy tells them they like her about ten times, the start to believe him and think he's sweet and must really care to keep wanting her. So just keep at her buddy :) I wish you luck!
Jessica 15/f
(Rating: 5) Wow!!! thanks for the answer Jessica..You're right about the message thing and laugh out thing when your with her. When wee go out with each other she always laughs and giggles. She also tells me that she likes my company . Well maybe girls are different... Perhaps, sooner or later I'm gonna tell her that I like her..and see the results..Anyway...you're really right about the excuse thing, but still accepts my invitation of going out with each other..Thanks for the advice Jessica....nice