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14/F My boyfriend and I have been going out for 8 months now. In the beginning I was so happy but gradually I started to lose my feelings for him, especially once school started again. Most of the time its a chore to talk on the phone every night and I'm just not happy. The only problem is that he's still completely smitten. He's constantly telling me he loves me and how much I mean to him and how he's so afraid to lose me. He doesn't have very good friends and besides video games not many hobbies. Basically, I'm a huge part of his life. I know I have to do this for myself but its going to hurt me so much to do this to him. I still care about him just not in the same way. We barely see each other outside of school and when we do he comes over my house. I've never even been to his. How can I breakup with him in person and make this as gentle as possible? Also, we have a semi-formal coming up in a few weeks and for Valentines part of my gift to him was a tie that matches my brand new dress I just bought. This may be a little awkward? I don't know please help. :( Thank you so much. (link)
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A relationship is about happiness, If you are not happy then the relationship clearly won't work out. Honestly, I would tell him you do not want to be with him before the dance. Afterall, You don't want to lead him on. Maybe you two can be friends, However when you break up with him you can say it in a way such as "I was thinking about our relationship and I think we should be friends because I'm not ready for a commitment" It's easy and pretty straight foward.
-BahaiMa22
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