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well so im 14, turning 15 really soon. i do not look my age at all. i look atleast 17. anyways theres this guy. i met him and he said he was 19, and i really started liking him and stuff, but later on i did find out that he really is 27, he has his reasons to lie about his age but i dont want to get into it. and i just found out his real age the other day, it shocked me to death the first day, second day pretty weird, but today im totally over it and still really like him. and we had a talk last night about us being together and me soon moving in with him when im able to move out. he still doesnt know that i know hes 27, he cant know i know, long story. but is it wrong to be in love with a 27 year old when your only 14 years old? =/

At one time no it was normal. Nowadays it's illegal. You could get him into huge trouble, so I would avoid him at all costs. I know you probably feel like you like him a lot but you'll get over it. In less then four years you'll be able to date whoever you want anyway so just stick with people close to your age for now. It seems like a long time but it's really not. You'll be 18 before you know it. Plus if you really cared about him you wouldn't want to risk him getting into trouble. He'll be listed as a sex offender and never have a normal life again. Seriously reconsider this whole situation.

xoxo,
dottie4

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