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How long do you think [if the people are comfortable in doing so] if your dating someone is a good enough time to wait before giving them a HandJob ? A blowjob? Fingering? Sex?
And the people dating are 16.

I think the people should talk about it, but take it slow. I mean, if you have sex automatically, then there's nothing to look forward to, nothing to make your partner wait for. It's the ultimate test of loyalty :) If they stay with you without the sex for a long time, they obviously love you or at least like you more than just a regular crush or infatuation :) I think both of them should decide together, but don't make it like a planned thing. Maybe you could just tell them when you're ready to do a certain thing and the both of you could discuss it. But just don't let them get too far too quick, trust me :/
Hope I helped!

-Jessica

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