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It's fine.Ask me a question. I like giving advice. If you don't like the advice I give, or the opinion I have, it's fine.
Sometimes you can't get through to people no matter how long and hard you try.
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15/f
I hang out with a feww cool kids, Im under 5 feet, 95 lbs, adorable, smart but closeminded. I think Im great but not enough to be cocky.
Point is, Ive never kissed a guy and I cant figure out why. People are usually shocked when I tell them, and that makes me feel special :]
Could that be what's keeping me from kissing a guy or getting a boyfriend? If so, how do I stop it?
Also Ive only had three boyfriends. I want a really really close companion I can trust [a boyfriend, yeah]. Im just TERRIFIED of asking around and getting rejected, ruining a friendship, being made fun of. Any tips to help me?
Also, my history teacher said Im biased. I tried looking it up but didn't get much feedback. Soo..what does that mean again? I wanna say she said Im judgemental but that might not be right.
Everybody is afraid to some extent of getting rejected. It's pretty much human nature. But the trick is not to let that stop you from going for something.
With that said, take a chance. What's (be honest now) the worst that could happen to you? Someone says no, people might talk, then what? Everybody moves on. Believe it or not, when you make a mistake, people don't obsess over your mistake 24/7. They're too preoccupied wondering who's obsessing over THEIR mistakes. See a pattern? People really do spend too much time worrying. =p
I really wouldn't worry about not kissing anybody yet, everybody moves at their own pace. There's no set time limit like if you don't kiss a guy by the time you are 15, you're a loser. Some of my friends who are seniors haven't had their first kiss yet. And that is perfectly alright.
The closet companions you can have right now are your friends. So don't worry right now about finding the guy of your dreams. That comes along very few times. There's this quote that I absolutely love that says "You don't go to high school to find your husband, you go to find your maid of honor." And it's so true.
So while having a boyfriend might seem very important right now, not having one is more than alright.
To each his own.
=]
(Rating: 5) Aww thanks so much!
I feel sooo much better :]