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Q: 15/f
Whenever im with my boyfriend he always tries to put his hand down my pants. and i wouldnt mind it but i have pubic hair and im scared it would gross him out, so talking to some friend we were all going to go skinny dipping. and they were like ugh i need to shave first. and me being curious was like shave what they were like my vagina its prickly. i was like oh yeah haha. so that night i went and shaved my vagina. and now it just looks weird and not normal... and i think i made the wrong decision. but i cant go back now. was i suppose to do that?
guys when your going to finger a girl do you expect hair or no?
and girls just please help with the whole situation of shaving down there.

usually guys might feel a little weird with it being completly bald, so some girls just trim it real short or leave a "landing strip"...
when you said it doesnt look normal, do you mean by the way you shaved it or just the fact that it's bald?
since this is your first time shaving it will look a little weird at first because it's the first time you've seen no hair on it since before you hit puberty.

EDIT **
no it's not bad that you shaved it completely, it will grow back faster than you'll realize. and a landing strip is where you shave every where except for a small patch directly in the middle