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It's fine.Ask me a question. I like giving advice. If you don't like the advice I give, or the opinion I have, it's fine.
Sometimes you can't get through to people no matter how long and hard you try.
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i asked this question already but i couldn't see the answers for some reason so here it is:
i really like this guy and i think he might like me back, hes been dropping a few hints and stuff but like he didnt flat out say that he liked me... (yet?) we've only hung out like 3 or so times. im seeing him again this weekend at a party and theres gonna be alcohol there. hes not really a big drinker but he does a little bit, and hes friends with everyone who does. this is gonna sound really stupid but my question is, should i act a little tipsy around him? because i kind of want to see if he'll take care of me and stuff. please don't tell me to act myself and stuff its not like im gonna get flat out drunk, im not like that. i just wanna see if he really does have feelings for me and stays with me...which he has before at a non-alcoholic beverage party. oh and like everyones gonna be drunk, so i dont want him to get the wrong impression of me thinking im like a big party pooper, i wanna be fun, cause i am fun =)
thank youu!
Like the person below me said, he basically wouldn't be worth it if he didn't want you anymore because you were above the influence at a party. Why drink just because everybody else is, and you think it would get more people to like you? Those people who wouldn't like you as much sober...well, forget them. =P
Besides, you are your own person. I understand that you would want to know if he'd take care of you when you're 'tipsy'. But think about this: if he takes care of you when you're a little drunk, it could just mean that he's a nice person, not that he necessarily likes you. So, why not do it the old-fashioned way...ask him or flirt a little.
If he's already stayed with Sober You to talk at a non-alcoholic party, what makes you think he wouldn't stay with Sober You at an alcoholic party? He likes you already sober, so what's the point in testing him by drinking?
Just my opinion on the matter. Above all though, just have fun and remember that you don't need to show off to him by drinking. I think you're already in his good graces hun.
Good luck! =]
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