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Q: PART 1:
Okay so there WAS this guy. But then i realized that he is not the type of guy i want to be with because he was a jerk at some points. But i just realized this morning. And he is friends with my 12 year old brother. MY 12 YEAR OLD BROTHER MADE OUT WITH AN OLDER GIRL AT THE FAIR!! Im sorry but i think that this boy is a bad influence. My brother does not need to be doing things like this at such a young age...am i wrong for thinking this?? How would you feel??
PART 2:
And another thing. There was this boy CJ that was a senior that i could have "had" but he had a girlfriend, so i kept my mouth shut. And he liked me and i liked him, but i knew he liked me. He didnt know about me. But i didnt want to screw up his relationship. But now im thinking, it could have been love, would have been love, but wont be because i screwed up. To say i regret it is an understatement. I figured if i messed with the guy in part one the regret and feelings would go away. WRONG! And now he is at college. or going to it at least. But i dont know what to do about this. I hardly ever see him, but when i do, we sort of have a "moment". Like he will stare at me as if i am the only thing in the world, and its like something explodes inside of me everytime i see him. I dont know if this is love, like, lust, or what...can you help me with that and my regret?? and what should i do??
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Part 1:
I'd tell my brother if I were you, straight up, that they shouldn't be friends. Give him examples why he's a bad influence, and tell him that you're not trying to give him crap, just that you care and love him, and don't want him to get into trouble.
Part 2:
I'd say that regretting is you defending your heart and mind because you realize that you guys could have had "something." But, if he's in college, and he's away from home, it might've been hard to keep a relationship, anyway. Secondly, I also think that what you're experiencing is a mix of everything, including infatuation. I've felt the same way about a person, and have been in the same exact situation as you. It sucks ): But you just have to (for right now, until and/or if something changes) suck it up and deal with it. Because that's really all you can do. If he happens to be your love, because it certainly sounds like it, sometimes one person walks away, and you have to be strong enough to let them go, and give it time.
If I misunderstood you in any way, please let me know, so I can re-read it and help you.
Good luck hun, and I have aim (stated on my profile) if you need anything else, even to just talk.
Jess
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thank you. I might just do that with the aim thing. Because i really need some one to talk to sometimes..
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bio
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:
I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.
add me on myspace!
www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx
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Info
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: August 1, 2005 Answers: 750 Last Update: January 1, 2009 Visitors: 45619
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