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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.

Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.

You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.

Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.

-Volleyball2150



BODY EXERCISES AND WORKOUTS! my way or the highway

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My mom is constantly letting my older brother who is 24 do whatever he wants. Let me also tell you that I am 21 so saying that he is old enough to do those things won't fly. I do well in school, he is lazy won't do anything. He convinces my mom to do his homework for him and when I ask for help she claims she doesn't have time. I work my butt off to pay my bills, car payment every month, and do what I can around the house. HE doesn't have to pay anything! He has two credit cards which he is not paying, a truck payment, and a cell phone bill. HE has a job and uses his money to buy cds. What does my mom do pays for everything of his and when I have a little trouble managing one of my bills, she goes crazy when I ask if she can pay a 10 dollar payment. She also say she will do something then won't when it comes to me but when it comes to Ronnie she will shift the world. He gets sick, she pampers him, when I get sick, she thinks I am faking. I am really sick now and she is making me go to work. When Ronnie gets sick, he can just call off whenever he wants. I a convinced the way she raised him, is the way he is. She ignores, never listens, and doesn't care about any accomplishments I achieve. I got a book published that will be going in the stores next month and she says "ok". Never says happy birthday to me but goes all happy for Ronnie.

sara is right. youre 21 and why are you still living in your mothers house? to hear her complain and make you miserable? you dont need that. you need to show her that you are finished with her and that you dont need to stick around for the ronnie and mom show because you are leaving. get your own apartment or house and just go. why do you even need your mother right now? what is she doing for you? making you miserable and thats about it. you can take care of yourself and by living in your mothers house, you are only getting weaker and not stronger.

if you move out, maybe your mom will miss you and will want to keep in contact with you and treat you like an actual daughter and not some horse.

i wish you luck and congrats on the book! if you dont mind, may i ask whats the title? i love books and i want to check it out!

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(Rating: 5) Moving out isn't as easy as it sounds. When you have bills up to your neck, schooling, and expenses, I can't afford to move out. I just decided to be independent and stay out of everyones business. Two of the books can be found on lulu.com. Titles are The Leaf: One Fallen Heart and a Burning Desire and Avengement of Glory. The thri one is called Spiral of Enlightenment which will be in stores the end of next month. Thanks.
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