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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.
You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.
Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.
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So like my subject says, my best friend just had to put her dog to sleep and it is seriously killing her. She knows I'm always available to talk and be with her when she's down, but is there something else I could do or get for her to make her feel a bit better? Let me know.
If i were you, i would make sure that she is happy. if you see her at any given time and she looks sad... do whatever it takes to make her happy. for example, say youre at the movies and she looks sad. buy her favorite candy and give it to her. dont do anything stupid like buying her a card with a dog on it because that will most likely make her even more sad. dont mention dog for a while. in fact, dont mention any animal for a while. do something that she loves to do. if she loves rock climbing, then do it with her. if you are old enough to drive, take her on a road trip to all of the amazing places. maybe even take her somewhere where there is just nature all around. no towns, no people... just birds, trees and privacy. trust me, it will give her time to think.
i saw this in a movie and i dont know if it will work but i just want to share it with you in case you think its a good idea. you could make a video or slideshow of all the pictures of her and her dog. play nice slow music and when she is watching it, make sure the lights are off, give her her favorite food/candy/drink, put your arm around her and hug her. if she cries... thats a good thing. she needs to get her emotions out and not keep them bottled up. it might be best if it was just the 2 of you. otherwise she might feel embaressed if she cries in front of other people.
best of luck!!
(Rating: 5) thanks, this helps a lot. :)