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i have this huge crush on this guy lets call him adam. i knew that he liked me back cuz one of his friends told me so i told my best friend lets call her mary about it. then a few weeks later i noticed her flirting with adam when i wasnt there i could tell that adam wasnt in to her cuz he was trying to walk away.i asked her if she liked him and she denied it so i let it go then a little while later we had this dance and she couldn't stay away from adam. i asked her again if she like him and she said no again i wanted to make sure that she really didnt like him so i told her that i like this guy named zach and then i saw her flirting with him too then after awhile i noticed that she always happened to be flirting with the guy that i liked at the time or atleast told her that i like them.i think that she is a copy cat and she likes every body i like i dont want her to ruin my relationships in the future by flirting with my boyfriends so what can i do??
i dont want to hurt her feeling either..
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well, I have had the same problem with my best friend :) the solution is really simple; just don't tell her who you like. My friend did this thing where once I told her who I liked, she would say she liked him to and said that neither of us could have him since it wouldn't be fair. nonetheless, she would be dating him in like a week. Annoyed the crap outta me. but eventually, I just called her on it when she did it. Like, she'd be flirting with some guy I liked and i'd be like "dude I liked him first" or something :D eventually she got the message. Goodluck!
(Rating: 4) thanks for the advice i like it that u had a quick solution and maybe very efective! thanks!