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If youve read my last question, which I deleted, youd understand my situation a bit better.
But I have a sleep and mood disorder, so I was recently homebound but I keep in contact with my closest guyfriend and thee cutest crush. Oh! Im fourteen female, by the way.
But a heck of a lot has been going on with me and this boy. There was this whole debacle a few months back involving tons of new friends, old friends, threewayIM attacks...and MYSPACE.
A week ago I was able to fess up and say how I felt, but only after he did first. Things have been shaky for this week after.
Hes turning into a bit of a hypocrite, I think. It would help if you knew he was moving upstate within the summer.
Just hours ago on AIM, he claims that Im trying to push him away, that he sees right through me, that Im the cause of his breakup and the big fight months ago. He insists Im lying but cant find proof, I guess. I sorta had to just a bit. I needed to protect myself from the same situation as before. So I tried. Then he starts to compliment me, apologize, etc. I go with it.
He keeps coming up with these CRAZY things, all in the "wrong window" because hes talking to seven people at once? But he sure had an awful lot to say to me earlier. It was only a ten/twenty mintue convo, I think. He says "yeah we had sex. OMGOMG wow awkward i am SOO SORRY that is in the WRONG WINDOW. yeah you dont wanna know" so Im actually not too shocked even though he DID tell me he still had his vcard on the phone months earlier. So I say "um no its your life, i guess. your business. id rather not know what went on" but he keeps pushing the subject at me. "Oh if only you KNEW who it was. Your world would be UPSIDE. DOWN." "No, I dont think it would. Not completely" "Mhmmm. Noo it would. I know it." Then, he TELLS ME who it was!!!
Then when I insist that Im okay with it [yes. i think im over him.]
Suddenly; I hate him? Im lying? Im so effing confusing, the way I 'rephrase everything no like everytime'? I cant get a damn thing right?" Where is this coming from??
Its like hes trying to MAKE me hate him.


Even though he said he has to explain every little thing a good five times, everytime, as he said...I dont know.He wont believe that I dont hate him. I didnt tell him I didnt likehimlikehim either.
I dont know WHAT has gotten into him. He said he was gonna stop saying bad words cuz I didnt like them. But then he said...'this is me. I am me'


--- wolde you bothe eate your cake? And have your cake?
I saved the conversation for future references. If you need it or wanna review or the full story, just lemme know "]
But what has gotten into him?

ok well i dont know what has gotten into him, and neither will anyone else on this site, but if he is trying to make you hate him, then then hate him. Its seriously not that difficult. If you want to be with him, be with him. If he is making you crazy, dont deal with him.
-hayley

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(Rating: 4) thanks!
i dont hate him,
buut i probably will eventually
haaha. jk. but thanks
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