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Im a fourteen female and I have this iffy chronic fatigue thing, so Im homebound and dont get to see much of my friends let alone this AMAZING boy. This is going to be lengthy. Apologies! But friends dont matter much at the moment because my closest are moving away, including said boy, though not until summer ends. Ive liked him on and off for months, starting before new years. Last week we got into this conversation. I explained I was thinking about getting a hair cut, but nothing drastic,

and so he he was all 'kayjayyy[jay is for jerk] but ehh dont cut it youre cute enough already[smile]'
and i exclaimed that it wouldnt matter what i did with it because its not like hed see me anyway because of my absence
and he had to be all 'whateverr' so when i asked wht was wrong he just said 'ehh nvm you dont care' and when i ensured him i DID in fact care a lot he finally said 'well i like you...your hair the way it is' and when i asked him what he meant he just said 'thats it. i like it the way it is'

And being the cheesy kid I am I changed subjects with a knockknock joke. And after a bit the talk went back to awkward for me. After asking him what was on HIS mind, he told me to tell HIM [practically] absolutely everything Ive thought about, details, details, and all. Dont skip anything.
-lalaaalala noo im avoiding conversation
-tell me everything
So I said 'im thinking about well how much i like you, your hair the way it is [smile]' I tried to say I was just copying him but eventually we both got into how we were into each other. And he posted this bulletin titled luv ya, you know who you are with TWO smilies and I already missed him

so last night would be the first night we talked since then. We were on aim, he was folding laundry, searching on youtube, probably talking to a million other people with the scenekidsocialite he is. So he was the only friend online pretty much. But he didnt say a word.
And again being the cheesy kid I am I eventually went into a knock knock joke. 'knockknock' and of course he said 'whos there' and when i said 'von'...he didnt answer. So I commented on how "youre not very good at knock knock jokes" because we failed to ask soandsowho the last time but still got a got from the punchline. And he went into caps lock 'ughh FINE VON WHO' and I was nervous already so I said 'ughhhh no one now GEEES later' and i was thinking of saying
'im sorry im annoying and youre so disappointing PEACE' AGAIN being the cheesypoetyetadorablyquaintandchildishperson HE says I always am.

But he signed off first, without saying goodbye







SO AGAIN SOOO SORRRRYYY FOR IT BEING SO LONG BUT IF YOU CANT TELL I LIKE TO WRITE "DDD
so thanks for reading, and any feedback is SOO appreciated; [ie] advice, support, the exact definition of bipolar, socialite, any words you mighta liked, your favorite music

haha. but hes moving but i cant help it. i wasnt sure if he thought we were a couple or not, and he had his details hidden, and we hadnt talked in days,
and weve got all summer to chill out.
and naturally, i was curious "/
but what now

Well, Aim can be sometime awkward because you can't see someone facial expressions, you could have misunderstood what he was trying to say and he could have misunderstood what you were trying to say. I think you should try to talk to him more face to face and i bet your conversation will be alot less heated and awkward. If it isn't , then maybe you guys really aren't into eachother. Also he isn't bipolar. He's just ornery. If he was bipolar his reactions would be much more drastic and wouldn't be that quick to change. People who are bipolar go through stages of being nasty for months or weeks, then go back to their normals selves for another couple of months or weeks. Hope it helped.

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(Rating: 3) i was exaggerating about being bipolar, thanks. but with me being homebound [i think i said that?] its hard to hangout. weve planning on it during the summer
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