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Q: I'm 17 F and me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years this September. I love him, I really do. But idk how to really say it, but I just want to be a 17 year old and not a married old lady. Thats how I feel sometimes. My boyfriend has been there for me A LOT. I mean, he is great, we have our little fights, but I mean who don't? I NEVER cheated on him, and same for him to me. He's in college, and I'm a junior in hs, but hes home now, and I still have school left for a couple more weeks. So we're together a lot now. Hes not the hottest thing, but I don't care, I love him for how he is to me, and how wonderful he is. I love him, I do, but sometimes I wonder why did I get into a relationship so young like this. We started dating when I was 15, and I'll be 17 in a week. I know he's older and hes ready for this kind of relationship, but I'm not sure if I really am. It's hard, but I don't know what to do. I don't want to think everyday "why am I with him, when I'm not even sure what I really want." And I don't want it to go to the point where I'll cheat on him b/c I'm not sure what I want, and lose him forever. He's said if I would ever break up with him, he won't talk to me again. But how can you really do that to someone you love with all your heart, when all I would be doing is being honest with him. I need help =[

Im 14 but i had the same problem. And what i did was put things on hold. not end them but just put it on hold until wer 20 or w.e. because by then well both know what we want.

that might work for you. goodluck!

you might also want to try distancing yourself a little bit. you will never know if hes the one unless you get to see other people . try making your relationhip un-exclusive and date other guys. if you miss him that muuch, you know hes mr. right!

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