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okay so on spring break i re-met this guy, will, that i met at the same resort 2 years ago. the last time we had been a little flirty, but that was the extent of it. when i saw him this year, he asked me if i wanted to hang out one night. we hung out for about 3 hours, and he fell into the ocean (we laughed about that for a while...just wait, this will be relevant later). the next night, we hung out again and he kissed me for a long time. we hung out a couple more times...and kissed for probably 4 or 5 hours total (not kidding). he asked me for my screenname before he left, and we've been keeping in touch ever since. he's been really sweet and conversation has come fairly easily to us up until now. he asked me if i saw what we had as a "fling", which i had originally thought it would be but don't anymore....i told him this and asked him the same thing but he didn't want to answer "because after it's all said and done we won't have anything to talk about anymore". but every night before he leaves he makes a point of telling me how much he misses me. i'm wondering if you think that he really does like me, and if you think it's weird that he won't tell me if it was a fling or not. i want to know what he thinks without asking him upfront, because i know we can't have a long distance relationship. thank you!
thanks for the inbox!! and i have seen longer :D
but yes i very much so think that he likes you. But i think the reason why he hasnt told you might be that he hasnt told himself? Do you get what im saying. Maybe he hasnt really decided. Or maybe he thought it was a fling and doesnt want to upset you. But my best bet would be he is kind of confused. Summer love can do many things to people. It can make memories, break hearts, and bloom greater promises. I would just tell him that you really need to know how he feels and you wont get mad for what he says. hope i helped you and good luck! :)
-hayley
(Rating: 5) thanks hang on, i'm asking u another 1 real quick!