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Okk, so dont judge me for this please i am having enough trouble....(not saying that you would) but there is this boy, and something kind of happened...well we flirted a lot and then he finally kissed me and it was great...but i began to freak out after he went back home..and he got my number and like a month later he began calling me and i didnt want to deal with him so i told him to stop that i didnt want to talk to him....i think i really hurt him,,,,but why did i freak you ask?? ha ha well this is what is holding me back...you see he was kind of...adopted...into my family....I know right?? and that is freaking me out because i feel like crap now and i dont know why. And i had a dream that we was getting married. But that made me freak out more. And my friend is all like.."what if you are like in love with him" and i was telling her that i refused to be because of that reason....but she thinks that i might be so now i am stressing out even more...so what is your input and what should i do??
Well, if he is your adopted brother, then this is fine. He's not actually related to you, so it's not ancestory [dating a relative]. Don't worry about him being adopted though. All you need to do is talk to him :] i'm sure he'll understand if you tell him the truth! You might feel guilty because you hurt him, or you're denying your true feelings about him. And the dream is a pretty good indicator that you have feelings for him. Just talk to him and apologize for freaking out and then be happy :] don't let something like this hold you back! Goodluck! :]
(Rating: 5) oh no he isnt my brother ha ha..i left that part out woops! he is my adopted cousin..but thanks for the advice...really you helped a lot!! ha ha