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hi i'm drew (: i'm fifteen and a freshman. i guess you can say i'm young, and i'm not going to lie.. i am. but i love it. and i have had many other life experiences that normal teenagers haven't had, so don't think i'm naive. if you leave me a question in my inbox, i will try my hardest to answer it as soon as possible. so go ahead and ask! :D i don't sugarcoat my answers, i'm nice when i need to be, and i speak from the heart, you can take it or leave it. i had an old account, and i just recently started getting on this one, so don't think i'm inexpierenced [: i love answering questions, and getting feedback. so feel free to leave both. thanks for reading this

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I have no clue whether i'm bi, lesbian, or straight. It's weird, because I can remember liking guys. I mean REALLY liking guys, as in, my heart would beat like crazy if my crush walked by. I've gone out with a lot of guys too, but I have that problem about getting bored after a while. It seems as though my heart doesn't beat like crazy and my stomach doesn't get that tingly feeling anymore, and I miss it. I still will show off for certain guys and whatnot, but I don't feel that heartbeat thing anymore. For anybody. I don't know what this means. I'm not too fond of the idea of me being a lesbian (absolutely NOTHING against a lesbian. It'd just be weird and all of my friends are super homophobic) I've just never imagined myself that way. So, what are some signs of being lesbian or bi? Also, is there another thing that means you don't like any type? I mean, you're still friends with them but you just don't like LIKE them. Thanks :) please note that i'm NOT homophobic, if I sound that way. I'm just having a tough time typing up my thoughts.

oh goodness, i understand that feeling. i went through that stage when i was thirteen too. but just don't worry about it. try not to let it bother you so much. you probably arnt lesbian or bi, you probably just havent found the right guy. but later on you could discover you are bi or lesbian, but nothing is wrong with either of the three. just give it some more time. go out with a range of guys, because it could just be you're dating the wrong type. and when you're thirteen your emotions change constantly, that's what they're suppose to do. don't them get you down.

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