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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.

Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.

You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.

Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.

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alright so here's the deal; my best friend and i have been best friend's for about two year's
i have two best friend's & she never minded until now; i mean we hang out ALOT! i'd say i hang out with them the same- anyways's she has this "NEW" friend who i may can't stand one bit :/ she's 12 year's old; & were 15, i dont know it's like she is changeing on me like she never call's me & when i call her she's like UGH CAN I CALL YOU BACK & she never calls me back & the other day i had a big prob & i wanted to run to her about & she was just like oh. dang- LIKE WTF? & it isnt like to with her "NEW" friend & i wanted to hang out with her on friday but she said she couldnt chill then come to find out her "NEW" friend spent the nite.. I DONT KNOW what the heck should i do; i dont wanna just like NOT care because i do care & i just cant act like i dont & i just dont wanna lose her... =/

any thin could help< --

Hun, she's not physic! She can't read minds, so you need to confront her about this and tell her whats on your mind. Some people can tell how a person is feeling like, just by looking at them. And that may be possible with her, but if she could tell that you are sad/mad, she might think you just need space, so that could be a reason why she's avoiding you.

Make sure you talk to her and tell her what you're feeling. For example you could say "(name), I just want you to know that when you spend time with your friend, you seem to shut me out of your life and I feel like we don't hang out as much anymore"

Talk to her and find a day (possibly a week or 2 ahead of time) where you're both availible and you 2 just go hang out. If its shopping, sleepover, movies. whatev.

She also might just need time time away from you, so try to give her space and don't be all up in it, ya know?

I hope I helped and I wish you luck!
-volleyball2150

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