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Q: I'm a 16 year-old girl and my 15 year old (first) boyfriend says that I should change myself COMPLETELY just for him. And when I asked him why he's still with me and why he doesn't go to someone else he says it's because of all the sexual things he wants to do with me. I'm like..wtf..You don't respect me. You want me to change for YOUR sick pleasures...Well, I'm not going to change. It upsets me...because everything I seem to do, he's not happy with. The way I dress, act...He LOVES the way I look. And that's about it.
I'm on the verge of breaking up with him. We've been together for a month and 2 weeks. Do you think I should give him another chance?
what the heck? this is NOT a healthy relationship! he dosn't even respect you as a person! respect for eachother is like the bare minimum you need for something to even be called a relationship. break up asap.

p.s. way to go for insisting not to change. thats really good. lots of girls aren't that strong.

Thanks :)) lol i appreciate it

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