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It's fine.Ask me a question. I like giving advice. If you don't like the advice I give, or the opinion I have, it's fine.
Sometimes you can't get through to people no matter how long and hard you try.
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so I'm going to try to make this as short as possible...here it goes:
there are two guys guy #1 and 2...
#1: He is nice to me, incredibly sweet (although none of my friends or family like him and he's not very attractive), but in school (and outside of school) I never see him. So, when we are passing in the hallway or see eachother at lunch it is sooo awkward because we only talk on AIM and text, and we just like don't say anything. Well, he asked me out once, and then told me he liked me another time, and I told him I liked him too (because I do) and then he asked me if I would ever go out with a guy like him...and I said not until things becaome less awkward for us. sooo he dropped the subject and it's been weeks since he brought it up. I flirt with him a lot on text, but he can be a liar. so anyways, he brought up the subject again, but I might be liking another guy now.
#2. He is more attractive than guy #1, I talk to him at lunch (in school and on text) my friends like him, my family does too, but we nver hung out outside of school. He is tall and makes me laugh, and my friends are trying to set me up with him,, telling me how cute we are and everything, but he sends mixed signals. and I don't think he likes me as a gf, just a friend, but I'm not really sure. It's really confusing. We never talked about our relationship and whatnot, so I don't know who to like.
Can anyone help me out? comments and opinions would be greatly appeciated. thanks a bunchh.
Well, though they shouldn't completely run your life, your friends/family's opinion does matter. Guy #1 seems good because he's nice, but if your friends and family don't like him that's not so good. And if you guys don't communicate in person, only in texting, that's not good either. People act differently sometimes online than they do in real life.
Guy #2 seems better because your family and friends at least like him. However, if he only sees you as a friend then that is how it is. But you can change that. Flirt with him more and show him that you are ready for a relationship.
This isn't based on looks by the way. I just think that if your family and friends don't like a guy, you are in for a rough ride if you two go out. Trust me on this one.
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