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okay this may be confusing. one of my good friends.. we'll call him T.. liked me, apparently a lot. but he also wasnt over my good friend Alysa. i liked him too but i didnt say anything to him cause i was hearing this from other people, and i didnt want it to be false. now, i liked this other boy too. we'll cal him A. A apparently liked me for awhile, but then when i started to like him back he said he didnt really like me. then when he found out i liked him he apparently likes me again, weird? so, he asked me out on the 12th and i figured the T thing was just a rumor so i went out with him. big mistake. the second we were going out i liked T so much more. A didnt flirt with me anymore andhe always asked me to hang out. then when i ask him to hang out hes just like "i guess" and then he was sick. so we havent really spoken except for texting during our entire relationship. THEN last night i was at my friends house with Alysa, and some other people. one of the boys brought up the suject of T and was like i heard he likes Alysa a lot and she was like i like him too and they were texting. i had alraedy told her the previous day i liked him about 4 different times. then i was talking to my other friend, and she was like yeah Alysa said her and T probably wont go out because seh THINKS you like him. so she basically "forgot?" about my feelings, and she did this before with this other boy i liked. so when i got home i talked to T. and he said he did like me but now he likes Alysa because i went out with A [ who i dont even really like anymore ] i told him i liked him and he started talking like "k." "ok." "yup." and that made me feel even worse. and A doesnt even know about this. what should i do? break up with A? stay with him? any advice is greatly appreciated!!!!!! sorrythat this was so long.!!!!
quite frankly they both sound like jerks to me. I would get rid of both of them. They arent worth your time. Do you want A to always talk to you like that? Do you want T to always act like that? I dont think so...i say just try to forget about both of them because you can do better! :)
-hayley
(Rating: 5) thank you[: i broke up with A