It's not that I'm bitchy, just that I'm right. Sorry if you're too stupid to comprehend.
About me? I'm in an interracial relationship- have been for overs year. He's black; I'm white. We're pretty rad, if I do say so myself.
I live in Florida. I'm a high school graduate. I like to knit. I don't take my own advice, simply because I'm stubborn. I have a big family. Also,I have a experience with children and babies. I like to party party party and get wasted. I like to smoke cigarettes. I like to snuggle. That's all you need to know. :)
++I don't answer questions nicely [if at all] to thirteen year olds, no matter their problem.
++I have also stopped answering the whole "DOES HE LIKE ME?!?!" questions. Communication is key, people. If you want to know, ASK.
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....is pissing me off. All. The. Time.
I do not know what to do about my mom. Generally speaking, she can never be happy with me or anyone else; picking and picking at sore scars is what she does best (she's weak, what can I say).
To be more specific, we fight all the time, and it sounds outlandish, but it's almost never my fault. She fights with anyone and everyone. Simple as that.
Today she called FOUR times to yell at me about the same thing. FOUR times. I did not want to go to HER friend's house for lunch, I had other things to do. She yelled at me about it, and changed the topic to something that had nothing to do with it at all, only to YELL again (and feel good). She's off the wall, everyone knows it.
I tell myself to calm down and ignore her ,but it's so hard. What's the best way to avoid her, without getting worked up over her craziness and yelling? Anyone in a similar situation? Thank you (link)
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Lol, I'm glad I read the additional info or it would've been totally hard to resist calling you a brat. You're 23. You're old enough to make decisions for yourself, especially if you don't live with your parents anymore.
My advice to you would be to hit the ignore button on your cell phone if you don't want to talk to her. Although it would be very considerate of you to go along with what she says because of the fact that she IS your mother, but you are entitled to your own life.
The best thing you can do [as hard as it is] is just count to ten and deal with it, and leave as soon as possible or avoid or ignore her. Some people on here will probably tell you that you should try talking to her about it, but chances are that you've either tried that road already or that would only make the condition worse.
Sorry, hun.
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Thank you so much, I think pausing and cooling off would help a lot. Sometimes it takes some time alone to get over things..
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