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My name is Angel, and I'm from northern California. I come from a large family where I'm the oldest, and I've lived a long, strange life. I have just about seen it all. In the last couple years, I have kicked a bad drug/alcohol addiction, and I can proudly say that I'm a sober teenage girl. I have a job, I'm a nanny/family assistant, whatever you want to call it. I'm a senior in high school, and I'm genuinely happy. I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for almost a year now. I have a lot of good advice, because I have a lot of life experience. I come from a broken family, I have step-relatives, and half-relatives. I just reunited with my mother after 10 years. My sister is a drug addict of the worst possible kind. I've been in all types of relationships. I guess it's safe to say that I know a little bit about a lot of things, and there's a lot that I know a lot about. Then there's things that I know nothing about, and that's when I ask questions. Thanks for reading my little rant, ask me anything. I check my email everyday, so if you can't reach me on my column, email me. ~Angel xoxo
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16/f...my boyfriend's 15/m (almost 16 though) i'm kinda awkward around my bf. i mean i REALLY like him, and he REALLY likes me. but he's my first and i'm not HIS first..
so i dunno what to do around him and i'm afraid i'll do something stupid and make a fool of myself. i'm afraid he won't like me anymore. like, when we were about to kiss, i freaked out, and we just pop kissed instead. he knows he's my first boyfriend and he's taking things slowly. but i dont want them to be TOO slow. i'm not usually like this around my friends. i'm just really scared that he's staring at my imperfections or something or that he thinks badly of me. and when we're going to kiss next time...but for REAL, i don't know whats going to happen...ahhh..
any experienced people...lol what do i do?
You're probably freaking out and working yourself up for nothing. He didn't want you to be his girlfriend based on your imperfections. There's obviously a reason why he likes you. If you really like him, try to be comfortable around him. It's hard, I know. When you guys are about to kiss again, just put whatever you got into it, if he reacts in a weird way, don't apologize or be weird about it. Tell him he's a good kisser, he'll probably say the same right back to you, it's not an incredibly difficult thing to do. If you feel to uncomfortable, play the cute/innocent role, "you have to teach me how to kiss." He would love something like that, boys love innocent girls, and they love feeling like they're better at everything they do.
After a month into our relationship, I got my 19 year old boyfriend to make out with me for the first time in his life, 19 years old and never made out with anyone, he had done other things, he just never made out. I was very supportive, and I even TAUGHT him how to kiss, I taught him. He's a pro now. Don't sweat it hun, if you guys really like each other, it'll be great no matter what. Keep me posted and good luck! ~Love Angel
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much :D this helped a lot =D