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My name is Angel, and I'm from northern California. I come from a large family where I'm the oldest, and I've lived a long, strange life. I have just about seen it all. In the last couple years, I have kicked a bad drug/alcohol addiction, and I can proudly say that I'm a sober teenage girl. I have a job, I'm a nanny/family assistant, whatever you want to call it. I'm a senior in high school, and I'm genuinely happy. I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for almost a year now. I have a lot of good advice, because I have a lot of life experience. I come from a broken family, I have step-relatives, and half-relatives. I just reunited with my mother after 10 years. My sister is a drug addict of the worst possible kind. I've been in all types of relationships. I guess it's safe to say that I know a little bit about a lot of things, and there's a lot that I know a lot about. Then there's things that I know nothing about, and that's when I ask questions. Thanks for reading my little rant, ask me anything. I check my email everyday, so if you can't reach me on my column, email me. ~Angel xoxo
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My boyfriend and I have been having terrible sex. When we first started it was amazing...now it sucks. Well do you have any advice to get things a little more interesting? What types of roleplay do you suggest? How is the best way to play out those roleplays? Any other kinky ideas? Please explain the roleplays and other things. Not like complete details, but what I will need and how to start it. Also is there something we can do before sex and roleplaying to know each others bodies better that might help when actually having sex?
As far as roleplaying goes. It's not really roleplay, but men love appreciation. Build up his ego, make him feel good, emotionally. It has a lot more to do with sex than you would think.
Something I would suggest: Dress up for him, if you don't want to go out and buy sexy lingerie, then put on his favorite pair of your underwear, and match it with whatever you got. Get dressed up, makeup, hair, heels, whatever you're into. Then do a something like a strip tease, and take total control of the sex. Men don't always like to be in control.
Ask him what his fantasies are, if you guys have been together for a while. It's a touchy subject, so be open, no weird faces, and don't immediately reject anything. Tell him some of your fantasies too. Try to fulfill those fantasies. They could be as simple as having sex in a hammock or something. It doesn't have to be anything crazy, if that's not what you're into.
Do some reading. It sounds really really lame, but your boyfriend will appreciate it if you pick up on some tips and tricks from a legitimate source.
If you want to have better sex, then you can have better sex. It's not upto your boyfriend to figure out how, do it yourself. Experiment with it, find out what you guys like, and don't be shy. Play around, it can be very pleasing for both of you. Good luck. If you have any more questions feel free to leave one in my inbox.
~Love Angel
(Rating: 5) Thank you! I like the idea of putting on his favorite pair of my underwear except I think I'm going to put on his favorite pair of underwear. I like it!