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My name is Angel, and I'm from northern California. I come from a large family where I'm the oldest, and I've lived a long, strange life. I have just about seen it all. In the last couple years, I have kicked a bad drug/alcohol addiction, and I can proudly say that I'm a sober teenage girl. I have a job, I'm a nanny/family assistant, whatever you want to call it. I'm a senior in high school, and I'm genuinely happy. I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for almost a year now. I have a lot of good advice, because I have a lot of life experience. I come from a broken family, I have step-relatives, and half-relatives. I just reunited with my mother after 10 years. My sister is a drug addict of the worst possible kind. I've been in all types of relationships. I guess it's safe to say that I know a little bit about a lot of things, and there's a lot that I know a lot about. Then there's things that I know nothing about, and that's when I ask questions. Thanks for reading my little rant, ask me anything. I check my email everyday, so if you can't reach me on my column, email me. ~Angel xoxo
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Hey, My friend is having a tough time convincing her mother she's still a virgin (she's not).. but the problem is that the boy.. well man.. is 24 and she's 16. But, anyway, that's not the issue at stake. She was thinking about telling the gyno that her hymen was broken by a tampon, not a penis. But I'm not even sure if that's possible. Can it be broken by a tampon? Also, can being fingered break it?
Thanks so much
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Your friend is going to have to tell the doctor the truth. They are required to keep patient confidentiality by law, so her mother wont find out. However, it's bad hiding things like losing your virginity from mom anyways. But if I was 16 and my boyfriend was 24, I wouldn't want anyone to know we were having sex either. To answer your question though, hymens are very fragile and can be broken easily with a tampon or a finger. What your friend should be worried about is her 24 year old boyfriend getting in trouble with the law for having sex with a child. Well good luck, and I hope things work out for your friend. -Angel
(Rating: 5) thank you. that helped.