It's not that I'm bitchy, just that I'm right. Sorry if you're too stupid to comprehend.
About me? I'm in an interracial relationship- have been for overs year. He's black; I'm white. We're pretty rad, if I do say so myself.
I live in Florida. I'm a high school graduate. I like to knit. I don't take my own advice, simply because I'm stubborn. I have a big family. Also,I have a experience with children and babies. I like to party party party and get wasted. I like to smoke cigarettes. I like to snuggle. That's all you need to know. :)
++I don't answer questions nicely [if at all] to thirteen year olds, no matter their problem.
++I have also stopped answering the whole "DOES HE LIKE ME?!?!" questions. Communication is key, people. If you want to know, ASK.
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I've always had a 6th sense for detecting peoples body lang. and things like that. I also get these feelings that I have to protect someone...
I'm a 15/m and I feel like I have to protect this guy. And I don't know why or how or when b/c he barely talks to me. His life is not the best and I think that's why I have to 'take care of him', kinda like a brother... but the guy won't talk to me and it's very hard for him to trust people b/c of family issues... idk what to do... normally I would just let it go right? ... WRONG!!!
I can't stop thinking about him... and it's not like I like the guy... I just can't stop wondering if he's ok today, or if he's smiling and happy. I feel like I have to play the part of father? I don't know what to do! Why can't I just stop thinking and worrying about him!?
What should I do? Have you ever felt like you had to protect someone that you've never met?
Please Help!
Thanks in advance.
-Andy (link)
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First of all, please forgive me when I say that Andy is the cutest name ever. :]
I totally know what you mean, and I totally understand. I've had that happen before, myself. Even though you don't know the person, you somehow feel connected to them? (Well, atleast enough to care, yeah?)
Keep an eye out for him if you want to, I see nothing wrong with it. Don't let it completely overtake your life or anything, by any means, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting someone to get hurt.
Strike up a conversation with him, find a common interest with him, invite him to hang out with you or your friends. Sometimes just generally being nice to someone will brighten their day. And, as hard as I'm sure it is, try not to pry. If he wanted people to know, he'd tell them. If you two become friends, then maybe he'll want to tell you, and you can decide for yourself if you need to continue to watch out for him.
You feel protective of him because it seems like no one else is, I can understand that. It's almost like you feel like you should take him under your wing? Well, there's nothing wrong with doing that (or telling him that. Honesty's always nice.)
And, of course, if you have any further questions, don't hesitate to drop me a question in my inbox, or IM my AIM (sn's on my profile), I'm just about always online, and I'm really good at listening if you need me.
You can never have too many friends, remember that.
:]
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Thank you so much! I think I'm going to talk to you on AIM soon. Thanks again!
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