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Q: okayy i'm 14 & i just seem to have met this great guy he's 18 and he's really nice to me and really a major cutieeee :) hes not a virgin / i still i am though. do you think he might just want to be using me for sex or what? should i trust him yet?
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It's great you like this guy. BUT the two things that bother me:
1. Yeah, there's a really good chance he's using you for sex.
2. He's 18!!
I would say get to really, really, REALLY know him before anything else. If you're not ready or comfortable to have sex, and you see that he suggests things, or brings up things mentioning sex, that's a huge red flag right there.
If you decide that you do want to have sex, know about safe sex (duh), and know the consequences; physically, (pregnancy)
or
emotionally (what if he were to leave you and you gave up that special part of you that you could never get back?)
Take time, get to know him, and know YOUR limits; don't compromise your morals/values for someone else if a situation like sex ever becomes an issue.
Jess
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thanx for your advice very helpful
nothing will start till i get to know him really well & i dont quite plan on losing it to him im starting to believe that after marriage is the right time. :) thanx again./
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:
I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.
add me on myspace!
www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: August 1, 2005 Answers: 750 Last Update: January 1, 2009 Visitors: 45591
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