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okayy i'm 14 & i just seem to have met this great guy he's 18 and he's really nice to me and really a major cutieeee :) hes not a virgin / i still i am though. do you think he might just want to be using me for sex or what? should i trust him yet?
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i tried to date a 17 year old when i was 13..
it didnt work out.
cause he tried to get in my pants.
and if you like acting immature sometimes i would just forget about him.
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It's great you like this guy. BUT the two things that bother me:
1. Yeah, there's a really good chance he's using you for sex.
2. He's 18!!
I would say get to really, really, REALLY know him before anything else. If you're not ready or comfortable to have sex, and you see that he suggests things, or brings up things mentioning sex, that's a huge red flag right there.
If you decide that you do want to have sex, know about safe sex (duh), and know the consequences; physically, (pregnancy)
or
emotionally (what if he were to leave you and you gave up that special part of you that you could never get back?)
Take time, get to know him, and know YOUR limits; don't compromise your morals/values for someone else if a situation like sex ever becomes an issue.
Jess
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The only thing that concerns me are your ages.
Just say you did "trust him" and got a little carried away, he could get into serious trouble because you are underage, because doing things sexually with a minor is illegal.
You can trust him and have a good friendship with him, possibly even be a couple if things do get that far.. but anything sexual, I'll say it again, is illegal.
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Not every person who is not a virgin is using people for sex. However, if he's 18 and you're 14, that's illegal in most states. Get to know him better as a friend before you trust him romantically.
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