Okay, well, since you took the dive, you might as well stick it out for a week or so. If you still feel miserable after that long, just talk to him.
He's your friend first and foremost, you should be able to be honest with him - WITHOUT crushing him. Let him down gently, and explain to him that it just doesn't FEEL right to you, and you're just not happy.
But keep an open mind right now. It might be okay. Don't do anything you don't want to, though.
Good luck.
-Siren =)

I'm getting more used to it and actually kinda like it now! im just going with it and its pretty fun. thanks so much! great advice! ;]

I'm a laid-back 26 year old with a Psychology BA, starting my MA program, and working my way into the field as quickly as I can. It took me an extra Bachelor's degree (in vocal performance and creative writing) to figure it out, but I was put on this Earth to help, to heal, and to love.

I have made the decision to dedicate my life and career to helping others. I am here to do just that.

I've been a member since 2004, and since I signed up, I've gone through quite a lot and learned quite a lot from it. I'm here to give guidance where I had none; no one should have to go through the difficulties I went through alone.

Feel free to visit my website/blog, if you want to read my experience with domestic violence and my thoughts on it.

***While I do tend to answer mental health and other health-related or medicine-related questions, I am by NO MEANS a licensed physician or practitioner of any sort. Any and all advice I give for these questions is from my own experience or studies.***

If you need to get a hold of me quickly, my screen name on AIM is SirenCytherea. Just let me know you found me here.

I'm a strong believer in the idea that there are no stupid questions except the ones left unasked, so, please, keep an open mind, heart, and mouth.

Siren

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