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Ok, please hear me out, and give your honest opinion.

I am a male in high school and am a straight guy. But there is this one kid that I can't get off my mind.

He is a very good looking guy and he's not mean or anything, I just feel like I want to talk to him all the time and be with him. But every time that we talk I feel like I'm the one that keeps starting conversations and he never starts them..

I don't think I 'like' him, I'm not sure.

Like for example, he's a trouble maker but not a bad one, and every time he does something stupid, I'm always the one to look at his gorgeous eyes and smile and his smile is so awesome I can't even describe it. And the way he smiles at me I feel like there's something more.. but I'm not sure. :(

So as I said, I'm not gay, but I just want to bring up this relationship as friends and see where that goes.

How can I get him to talk to me more?
We talk on AIM, Facebook, MySpace, but we end up just running out of things to talk about..

ALSO! How can I get him to talk about his life? Like what can I say to him that will get him talking about himself personally.

Thanks!
-AJ

PS: I'm 15 and he's 14, we're both in the same grade.

you can really communicate with eachother on aim and myspace. thats where i talk to all of my friends other then school. and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING is wrong if you have feelings for him. if you want to talk to him about him, then just ask him stuff about himself. you have to just ask. i have tons of friends when i am shy around them, i just say, hey, whats up, hows life. its really easy to communicate. even if your nervous. just ask them how life is and whats going on with life. thnx for asking me. hope i helped! and i have an advice email if you need anything else.

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