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so heres the deal...im 14and a half/f and hav a good amount of friends and i jus realized that out of all of them that i talk to most, im the ONLY one who hasnt made-out with a guy yet!and its kinda deppressing!!!i meen i think im a very pretty girl, somewhat prettier then most of them and im still a make-out virgin!!!i know people say good things come to those who wait but how long do i have to f-n wait!!!!i think im the second oldest out of my frinds and i hav only kissed one guy and it was only once and it wasnt "all that"!i dont know if it has anything to do with the fact that i dont kiss guys unless ive known them for a while and feel completly comfortable with sharing my lips with them!and then again i am kinda shy too!-well when it comes to guys and kissing-!it jus makes me feel so unexperienced and sad to know that ive never made-out with anybody! i just want to sooooo bad!its fustrating the crap out of me----but should it be???
Honestly, when you said that you have to get to know a guy before you share your lips with him[haha], i think thats great, and i bet some guys will too. If people bug you about it just say that your not comfortable kissing a guy you don't know well, and thats fine. Before i made out, i was itching to do it just like you. I felt so inexperienced and i didn't like it at all. But trust me, its not all its cracked up to be. It wasn't that great. But i don't expect that to help you. If you really wanna at least see what its like.. Go to a party and if there playing spin the bottle or 7 minutes in heaven, then jump right in. Its the best way to do it because its not random, people won't call you a slut, and its comfortable because everyone around you is doing it. But don't do it unless your really ready! make sure your completely comfortable with it, and remember have confidence in yourself. 8)
(Rating: 5) thanx!