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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.

Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.

You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.

Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.

-Volleyball2150

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okay, here i go;
My dad. wow. a very protective guy. The other day one of my verry close guy friend called and we talked for hours. and ever since we've been talking on a daily basis. Were just friends, no more and never will be. I can only see him as a brother. But my dad doesnt 'approve' talking to guys. I mean, well that kind of sounds qweer. its hard to explain. i dont have a strict family at all, but when it comes down to this. WOW. My dad doesnt 'like' me talking to guys. he says ' at this age guys are very dangerous' . blah blah. Yes i know. And im an actually good girl. I rarely do 'bad' stuff . I know whats wrong from right. IM SMART. its just, my dad , ugh. How can i get him to stop and let me talk to my friends?!? its bugging me , and most of all, EMBARASSING ME.

please help! michp appreciated.

depressed Deana

yeah... that's kind of like my mom and dad. They're super protective. But just tell him that he's a friend and nothing more. Tell him that he is like a brother. tell him that girls can have friends that are boys and boys can have friends that are girls, and still not flirt with them.

Tell him that it's unfair that you have to be only friends with girls... tell him that you want to have a best friend that is a guy. Tell him that you don't like him in that way, that he is only a person to hang out with and not mess around with.

You can try to invite him over to your house when your dad is home, and show your dad that he's like a brother. For example- you play football with him and laugh and have fun, there's no way your dad can think that is bad... or you 2 play video games, or on the computer together.. ya know??

if you 2 watch a movie, he'll get suspisious and think you 2 will cuddle together and stuff... but if you do things like play football, soccer, computer, etc... then there is nothing suspisious about that.

Just act like he is a brother around your dad (fight with him over the remote, fight about what to eat for lunch etc.)

Main point= show your dad that he is just like a brother.

-volleyball2150

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(Rating: 5) thank you sooo much! man your good at this stuff! ahha. much appreciated ! i'll try and do that and see what happens! thankk you again

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