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"Now pull the knife from my ever bleeding heart.
Tell me now your words never meant me harm."

I'm Allison.
I don't really care too much about ratings. Either you want my advice or you don't.

I've pretty much been through it all. From internet relationships to broken hearts to divorces to bad friends.

Ask me questions in my inbox, and please leave me feedback :] Numbers can only help me so much.

Here's a little about me non-advice related;
-I'm from Texas. Where the heat never ends.
-I love music from the indie/emo/alternative rock genre.
-Reading and swimming are two of my passions.
-Music is number one
I guess you could say I'm a very artistic person.

advice

I'm a thirteen year old female going to high school as a freshmen. In seventh grade there was this guy V that my friend M went out with and my other friend B liked him but M and B where best friends but they were both friends to me well there friendship ended because B liked V and tried to get with him after M and V broke up. Then me and B became best friends all this while I always liked V. V would always tell me how he could not stand and would repeat how much he did not like B but I couldn't tell her that. Well our eighth grade year V didn't come back but he moved with his dad, and B and M are still not friends to this day. About half way into our eighth grade year I found V's myspace, and added him and started talking to him, and B got jealous but I ignored that. On day this summer V sent me a message telling me that he moved back over by me on the same street as my grandma and to call me whenever I was over there. Well today I hung out with him he asked me to come in but I was like thats okay, do you think he wants to do other things? I know FOR SURE i would never do anything I haven't even kissed anyone yet, but he calls me alot and invites me in his house all the time. What do you think he is indicating? Also I don't want B to get hurt although we aren't as close as before I think she still likes V but I really don't care about that but he knows and he said since they are going to the same school and I'm not that if B tried to get with him at all he would humiliate her in front of everybody that is all I am worried about so how can I fix that?

Sorry I know this is long and drama filled but just help please.

Okay. Just use fake names. It's so much easier and less confusing than letters.

I don't V is implying anything by asking to hang out with you. He could just wanna be friends. You can't always be afraid of what they want, because generally guys all want the same thing. But it's a part of life and learning. And if he tries anything on you, which he shouldn't. [You're 13 for crying out loud.] But if he does, just tell him no, and if you feel uncomfortable, then simply leave his house, or hit him :]

And if B gets upset that you're hanging out with him, and not doing anything with him. Then she's acting really immature. You're allowed to have guy friends. Guys shouldn't break up friends, by the way. Friends are forever.

And this guy sounds fishy to me. He shouldn't have to humiliate your friend. He should be civilized and just talk to her, and tell her how he doesn't like her and she needs to move on. But in a nicer sense.

The only thing you can do about him doing something to B, is to talk to him, and ask him not to. He'll probably listen. It sounds to me that he may like you.

So don't worry about his intentions. Just be on your guard. And talk to him about the whole "I'll humiliate her" situation.

-LoveSucks♥

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