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Okay.I'm really stuck guys.I'm so mad and sad and frustrated with everything.There's this guy that I like.Let's call him Clayton.And Clayton is such a sweetheart and I can tell him anything and I know he'll listen.But me and him like..I don't know..he just doesn't like to make conversation at all.Unless I bring something up.And it usually goes like this:
Me: ...
Clayton: ?
Me: Oh nothing
Clayton: say it
Me: no
Clayton: why
Me: because
Clayton: just say ittt
And it goes on and on.And usually I only do that so he talks.Lol.Because otherwise, I really don't know what to talk about myself.And he doesn't like to open up to me..and it makes me mad.What do I do?

Haha well that's no basis for a relationship. Ask him questions. Ask what he did today. If he says nothing, say something witty like, "You didn't even eat? Wow!" That's bound to force him to tell you what he did. Then comment on something that he did. Tell him about your day. Then start asking other questions. About anything! If it comes to the point where you can't think of ANYTHING, tell him you want to play a game. A good one is "Never have I ever" take turns asking questions like... never have I ever been out of this country. If you have been out of the country, you lose a point. You start out with ten points and the winner is the one thats points last the longest. Suggest this to him. While you are playing, play off the questions that you guys ask. Ask him things and get a convo started. It sounds dumb, but it's a good icebreaker. You should try it!

Best of Luck.
Sarah

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(Rating: 5) lol thank you i'll try it out.

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