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I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.

Thanks so much to you all.

please please please keep the baby. having an abortion is murder. you are killing the baby and not giving it a chance to live. killing it would be very selfish of you. if you keep the baby, you will learn so much and grow so much responsibility. many women who have abortions regret it in the future. they always think about the baby "they could have had." you dont want to feel guilty your whole life. just let this baby live and you will feel so proud and happy to own it. even if the father is not supportive, that doesnt mean you cant meet some other guy to help you out, right?

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. You're very helpful.

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