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Q: im looking for a diet.
one that actually works.
something quick and easy.

i want to loose 20lbs..

help?
Okay, nothing "quick and easy" is healthy. Just so you know.
Your best bet would be to up your protein intake (meat, cheese, dairy (low or nonfat dairy/cheese)) and lower your complex carb intake (starches like breads, potatoes, pasta, etc. Anything with flour in it). Make sure you eat some of that, but try to make it earlier in the day so you can burn it off by the end.
Lay off the junk food and soda. You don't want anything with high fructose corn syrup in it.
Aim for about 1500 calories a day doing all that, and start an exercise regimen. Even just walking around your neighborhood to start is a good idea. Exercise is key to weight loss.
DON'T take pills to lose weight, and DON'T try any of these fad diets (Atkins, South Beach). They work, but you can gain the weight back easily because your body forgets how to use the carbs that you'll eventually put into it.
Eat something small every 3-4 hours to help speed up your metabolism. Green tea is good for that, too. Make sure you drink lots of water.
Just so you know, also, any sort of deprivation diet isn't good. Good diets balance every food group (including refined sugars, but that has to be in major moderation) so your body learns how to use all of it to its advantage.
This is what I do, and it works for losing weight. It's a little bit slow going, but it's permanent, and it's something you can keep up for a long time, which is what you should be looking for. If you're unhappy with your body, don't "diet," change your lifestyle.
Be kind to your body.
Good luck!
-Siren =)

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Siren_Cytherea
I'm a laid-back 26 year old with a Psychology BA, starting my MA program, and working my way into the field as quickly as I can. It took me an extra Bachelor's degree (in vocal performance and creative writing) to figure it out, but I was put on this Earth to help, to heal, and to love.

I have made the decision to dedicate my life and career to helping others. I am here to do just that.

I've been a member since 2004, and since I signed up, I've gone through quite a lot and learned quite a lot from it. I'm here to give guidance where I had none; no one should have to go through the difficulties I went through alone.

Feel free to visit my website/blog, if you want to read my experience with domestic violence and my thoughts on it.

***While I do tend to answer mental health and other health-related or medicine-related questions, I am by NO MEANS a licensed physician or practitioner of any sort. Any and all advice I give for these questions is from my own experience or studies.***

If you need to get a hold of me quickly, my screen name on AIM is SirenCytherea. Just let me know you found me here.

I'm a strong believer in the idea that there are no stupid questions except the ones left unasked, so, please, keep an open mind, heart, and mouth.

Siren

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