Actions tell the truth. Words do not always carry weight. It sounds like you have been there for him and he used you when he needed a friend. He has no use for you anymore, so he is ignoring you. It sounds life he is too much of a coward to tell you he does not want to be together anymore, so he is treating you badly, hoping you will take the hint or break it off yourself. Guys hate confrontation and the cowards are the worst. Don't waste anymore time on this one. Ignore him long enough and he might miss you, but a leopard does not change his spots...so it goes.

thanks, ive often thought that myself, i guess i was right

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