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K... so ill give a run through and ask my advice. So i had a REALLY GOOD FRIEND BFF'S so yea and she was friends with this other girl longer than me and she was a bff too. (My bff is Sarina and her bff is eileen). so eileen was a bad friend to me so i stop being friends with eileen (long story short she was a monster) but i was still friends with sarina and we'd hang out and go to the mall and eileen would constantly set barriers for sarina, when she could hang out with me and where (ex. some periods in skool, some weekends..etc) and eileen was the top priority so one friday i got together with my other friend Peter and Leslie and Peter pranked called Eileen and she heared me in the backround laughing (o yea he prank called in response to me complaining to him and leslie b4 this, about the situation) so eileen told sarina that she CANT be friends with me anymore and ever since ive been soo depressed and upset, ive done some pretty bad things to myself and i dont have anyone like sarina used to be for me) i also pretty much distanced any chance of being friends again cause i spread rumors of what they did to me and demonized them... on top of that i dont wanna betray leslie cause shes been there more than peter (he hasnt been there for me at all)what do i do i wanna be friends with sarina?
What you just told me, about you being sorry for what you did, you accepting that you did bad things to your friend in order to hurt her other friend, was great. You have to tell Sarina exactly what you told me, and brace yourself, you have to also say sorry to Eileen. Sarina will never accept you as a friend again without you accepting Eileen. You won't be betraying Leslie or peter if you don't blame anything on them, and keep them out of your apology. Who knows, if you say sorry, Eileen might follow your example and things will get better for both groups.
(Rating: 5) THANKS SOOO MUCH!! I REALLY NEEDED ADVICE UR MY SAVIOR