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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
Much love, Teza
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I have regular fights with my best friend and she really annoys me most of the time. She's just not really me if you know what i men anyway she was typing some mean thing in an im box and she wasn't gonna send it but i sent it and now that guy got mad at her, and DUH she's mad at me. But secretly like I said I've been wanting to do something so bad to her alot worse than that and wat she was doing then was fine its just payback for every single time she hurt me or made me hate her. I really wish she just wouldn't be my friend.
But the problem is called spheres of influence. She's one of those really popular girls and I already have rumors (fake rumors) and fake gossip about me with her as an enemy she will spread more stuff and honestly i would have no friends. none. and although for me it's fine i don't like anyone thats in her group, but her group is basically the school. and it will be a problem when im back just walking from class to class no talking. Im sorry this is long my life is just messed up right now and I need to start making right decisions on stuff andif u read this hope fully you can help me.
First of all, you're not being fair. You guys don't even seem to be "best friends" because that is no example of a true best friend. I'm not trying to be rude or anything but honestly I think you're just using her for friendships. If she was really your best friend, you wouldn't be hating her or wishing bad things to her. Of course friends can get a little annoying when you're always with them, but you both are nothing but fake. The only reason that you're "friends" with her is to KEEP your friends and from preventing people from hating you. It's really shallow and you may not think I'm right, but that's the way you make it seem. If this continues, you really need to sit down and talk with her or better yet, take some time apart from each other. Think about what you really want and what kind of friends you want in your life. Stop worrying about who likes you and proving people wrong.
(Rating: 5) thanks it's good now we'll just take BREAK FROM HER SINCE IT'S SUMMER AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS (wait sorry about the caps)