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BBF or Not?
I have regular fights with my best friend and she really annoys me most of the time. She's just not really me if you know what i men anyway she was typing some mean thing in an im box and she wasn't gonna send it but i sent it and now that guy got mad at her, and DUH she's mad at me. But secretly like I said I've been wanting to do something so bad to her alot worse than that and wat she was doing then was fine its just payback for every single time she hurt me or made me hate her. I really wish she just wouldn't be my friend.
But the problem is called spheres of influence. She's one of those really popular girls and I already have rumors (fake rumors) and fake gossip about me with her as an enemy she will spread more stuff and honestly i would have no friends. none. and although for me it's fine i don't like anyone thats in her group, but her group is basically the school. and it will be a problem when im back just walking from class to class no talking. Im sorry this is long my life is just messed up right now and I need to start making right decisions on stuff andif u read this hope fully you can help me.
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If your friend spreads rumors about you, she probably does it to a lot of people. Meaning you aren't the only one that hates her. If she keeps acting the way she does, she'll be the one with no friends.
Forget her. Tell her your tired of fighting with her, she's a horrible friend, and she's driving you nuts. Don't be friends with her anymore.
I highly doubt she controls everyone in the school, honey. If you want to make friends, all you have to do is go around and meet new people. I'm sure there are SOME people in the school that don't believe the stupid rumors she spreads. Join a club or sport and I guarantee you'll be making tons of new friends.
If she wants to spread rumors, cause a bunch of drama, and act like an immature little baby, then there's no reason to call her your best friend. You're probably in middle school right? Just relax. You'll make tons of new friends without her. All you have to do is be nice to everyone around you, be active in school activities, and enjoy the things you love.
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It's obvious you dont want to be best friends with her. SO DONT BE. The thing is, she could start rumors about you blah blah blah SO? Like you said, you dont even like her friend but it's completely understandable that you dont want to be alone. You were saying that you wanted to do something bad to her in order for her to get mad at you so you will stop being friends? Eh... Dont do that. I mean, you could WANT to do it, but dont do it. She could tell everybody and it wouldnt be a rumor since it's actually true, you know? If you stay friends with her, it's for all the wrong reasons. I advice you not to. She will use her being popular and being able to manipulate your whole social life to her advantage. What I mean is, don't tipy toe around her just because she's popular. Be you. The simplest way to stop being friends with her is to avoid her and when she talks to you, try to get out of the conversation, you know? Become atleast acquiantances, NOT enemies. Good luck with everything.
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First of all, you're not being fair. You guys don't even seem to be "best friends" because that is no example of a true best friend. I'm not trying to be rude or anything but honestly I think you're just using her for friendships. If she was really your best friend, you wouldn't be hating her or wishing bad things to her. Of course friends can get a little annoying when you're always with them, but you both are nothing but fake. The only reason that you're "friends" with her is to KEEP your friends and from preventing people from hating you. It's really shallow and you may not think I'm right, but that's the way you make it seem. If this continues, you really need to sit down and talk with her or better yet, take some time apart from each other. Think about what you really want and what kind of friends you want in your life. Stop worrying about who likes you and proving people wrong.
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well this girl definitely doesn't sound like someone i would wanna be "best friends" with. but with the whole rumor starting and everything i think it would be best for you to stay friends, just not as good as you are now. if people don't like you just cause you're not friends with her that's dumb, but i guess you just have to deal with the fact that people can be really stupid.
good luck♥♥
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