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Q: ok im 19 and i have been with my man for like, a year and a half. the guy hasn't had sex in almost 2 years and i am still a virgin. he knows and respects that. But recently he has become sexually frustrated b/c we live together and he says it feels like we are already married with out any of ther perks ... meaning sex. im scared and i want to sleep with him i really do, but im afraid of the pain. he told me there are only two options for this situation. 1: I allow him to go and strictly have sex with another woman, just to get rid of the frustration (but he said he doesnt want that cuz he knows it will hurt me) or 2: for me to get over my fear and go through with it.

well, it all boils down to im afraid of both options, and well, i don't face fears very well. what should i do? Any kind of advice is welcome please help me out.
well, i dont think those are very fair options. hes not being fair with you. hes pressuring you.

if you want to sleep with him, not because of him pressuring you but because you want to, then you can figuire out Å way so that its not as painful.

if you dont want to, then tell him that. also, tell him that he can NOT go sleep with sombody else. and if hes that frustrated he can leave.

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