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Some people get to be pretty, do everything right, be popular, and make it seem like easy work while others stress constantly over everything and life...this is serious ive considered suicide A few times and I need help. how do thet do it? be so well perfect
Nobody is perfect. The people who are pretty and popular, aren't pretty because they made theirselves that way. Sure, you can fix yourself up to look decent, and better, but some people are born differently. Nobody can give you that answer, except god. He made you that way.
As for being popular, you make yourself that way. Getting in with the right people, being nice, being yourself, being "in style" is what makes people popular.
Nobody is perfect.
As for thinking of suicide, just remember, it's not the way out -- so please don't do it. It won't do you anything.
Here is something that inspires me, sorry if it is long.
Ask the 25 year old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived, but both of his arms are gone.
What about jumping? Ask John. He used to be intelligent with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leaped off a building. Now he's brain damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fogt but worst of all he knows he used to be normal.
What about pills? Ask the twelve year old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun? Ask the 24 year old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm, and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "fool proof" suicide. You might too.
But who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job but someone has to do it.
Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned? Your father? Your mother? Your wife? Your son?
The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will never completely recover. They'll feel regret and unending pain.
Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the four year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight and he may do it ten years from now.
You do have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend. Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital. Call the police. They'll tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow or in a phone call this weekend but what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't wanna be stopped? Still want to do it? Well then I may see you in the psychiatric ward later and we'll work with whatever you have left.
Remember, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
If you need someone to talk to, feel free to inbox me :)
(Rating: 5) hey thanks, I am going thru a tuff time now, god i hope these are private but i am, I think ill be fine im suprised I got alot of answers. I still don't know but well, thanks alot anyway.