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Okay sorry this is so long....

ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

He doesn't love you. Love takes a lot longer to form then 2 weeks. I know that its hard to hear, but its the damn truth.

He's using you, he's rushing you, he's pressuring you, and he is not being a nice man. If he did love you, he would wait till your ready. He just wants sex, which you don't want, which is perfectly okay.\

Make the right descion, break up with him. When you get older, you'll realise you made one of the smartest moves in your life. Why lose your virginity to a guy you don't know, don't love, don't want?
Its not worth it.


Edit; Good choice hun, inbox me and tell me how it goes.

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(Rating: 5) thanks-and im dumping him tonight
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