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Im literally crying right now...I feel that my family doesnt love me anymore. My parents are very demanding they dont even seem to care about my life anymore. i have 3 younger sisters, which makes me the oldest. The second youngest sister i have gets all the attention, they look up to her, they treat her with respect. shes like the boss of the other 2 younger siblings. and they are supposed to look up to me. but alls they do is just be mean to me ignore me and dont even talk to me. so i feel left out of the family, out of place. i feel sad right now. i feel like im the only child. i just noticed this as i was watching myself today. my second youngest sister in line used to be my best friend. but not anymore. im not jealous, but im unhappy with my family life. i would like to feel equal. but i dont and i cant stop crying about it. someone please help me, i will defintely give you a rating of 5 if you give me somewhat good advice. I really need it now!

I honestly don't know what to say either. I don't have siblings, but I do have parents, and I don't feel like they love me either. I feel exactly like you, out of place not wanted.
What I did was sit down with each of my parents and talk it over them. I explained my feelings twords them, and how things had changed. They really understood.
I see a Physiologist though. They seem to help a TON. I know its not what you want to hear -- but its your best bet to talk to your school counselor. They seem like they're for nerds but they can help a ton. I would really advise you to try and explain to your feelings. It could change things.

Always remember, your parents are there for you. They will ALWAYS love you.

If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to add my myspace, or IM me, or inbox me. All of those options are availvible on my column. Good luck :)

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(Rating: 5) thank u so much! :)
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