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Q: I love my bf to death and everything..
But for some reason we've been having problems.
I've been crying so much over him for little things.
Like lately it's like he doesn't care about things anymore or something or he's lost interest in me..
He said I need to learn to respect and trust him.
I mean it's hard because he's lyed to me a couple of times.
It seems like he doesn't feel the same way about me anymore and it makes me cry.
I never used to do that before.
I feel like he used to be obsessed with me and I loved that and now he just doesn't care it seems like..
We've been together for almost 5 months now.
I really really don't want that to end because I love him and I know he really loves me.

What should I do?!
Please help me.

mhm i know exactly how you feel b/c thats what me and My b/f of 5 months went through just a couple weeks ago.
sucks big time, huh?
the first thing you need to do is tell him exactly what you just said here. he probably won't know that you feel like he doesnt appreciate you anymore unless you tell him. and when you do if he really does still care about you it will make him sad but it will bring something to surface that might have been wrong with him or maybe he'll realize that he needs to step it up a notch. either way, tell him, and see what he has to say. stay calm about it but tell him exactly how you feel and if the tears come then its ok to cry b/c then he will know that you really mean this.
xoxo helpachick
*good luck!*

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Alright thank you for the advice. :)

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hey im helpachick & i want to help you if i can. more than most of the questions i answer i have experienced something close to that myself. so feel free to ask&leave stuff in my inbox or whatever, and i'll try to get back soonish.

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