Website:
facebookGender:
FemaleLocation:
Phoenix, AZOccupation:
CashierAge:
17AIM:
oxolindsayxMember Since:
April 22, 2005Answers:
113Last Update:
August 18, 2009Visitors:
11466Favorite Columnists
isis
Cux
Missa8305
LoveNJstyle
hailebop
Shortcake22
TheTeenGirl
Solemnstar
vchicka15
sk8trash
judedude23
more...
Main Categories:
Love Life
General Sex Questions
Internet & Web Design
View All
about
Hey! My name is Lindsay. I'm seventeen, and a senior at Arcadia High School in Arizona. I'm relatively shy, but as soon as you get to know me, I think I'm fairly obnoxious. I've been part of Advicenators for a while, but I took a break, and now I'm trying to remember how I did everything. I'm still getting used to the advertisements, but that will wear off soon.I'm extremely into music. I'm into little indie bands, as well as old school Green Day, The Beatles, and other punk and classic rock. I play the cello, and I really am starting to like classical music more and more. It really doesn't suck. You should listen sometime.
I try to give fair advice. Only a few times do I ever get responses in which the asker dosen't like what I say. I really like to read relationships stuff, which works well, because there's more Love Life and Relationships questions on here than anything else. If you have a problem, feel free to ask me a private question.
I try to have fun with this, talk to me sometime!
advice
Last year, there was this very complicated situation, that I won't explain, but basically there were two girls, and I was one of them. He chose the other one over me, because of popularity. Now, from what I hear from friends and his facial expressions, he regrets it. Since that situation last year, he's been, what I call, "depressed". He used to be known for his smiling.
Now, he hardly ever smiles or has fun. I don't know what's going on personally, but I don't think he was abused, or his parents died or anything.
Now, every time I see him, he looks like he's in pain. Not physically, but mentally.
I would ask, but our relationship is very broken, we can barely even talk to each other, without it all flooding back.
But I feel something, every time we look at each other. It's probably nothing.
Anyone have any suggestions?
I don't agree with Jam at all about this.
You should talk to him directly. As much as that may be hard, I think you have to say something. Once you start talking you could be friends again, and who knows, after that, you could even be something more.
You could start with a "Hey, I noticed you don't smile as much. What's up?"
And as you two get closer he'll start to open up again.
(Rating: 5) Thank you. Tomorrow, I'll start trying. I know I'll chicken out the first time, but maybe the second time I won't. :)