Hi I'm Laura. I'm a Christian and I am still at school. I joined the site to help people out. Quite a few of my friends come to me for help about various things and I've had quite a few problems in my life which I've sorted my own way. So I joined because if I can help my friends I can help others and I love helping people out.
Also, I'm a vegetarian, I take my beliefs seriously and I love people so much I just want to help everyone, although I often screw up. everything.
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i dont like my boyfriend. hes sweet and really nice, but i dont love him.
i dont know if i can break up with him though because first of all he really loves me, and second of all he is my best friends cousin and they are really close.
i dont want to break his heart and i dont want to hurt my best friend. to make it all even worse is that all his relatives know about us and support our relationship. =/
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how can i break up with him without hurting anyone and without losing my friendship with my friend? (link)
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just tell him honestly why you need to break up with him. yes he will be upset but in the end he will thank you for it. it will free you both from what is currently a lie, and you can move on. it would cause him more pain if in the end he found out you had led him on.
when my last boyfriend broke up with me he wasn't straight with me. i knew there was something wrong, you can sense it, but he never told me. in the end i asked him, and it hurt so much (and still does) that he didn't care enough to tell me.
the truth may hurt, but to save the most grief to both of you, end it as soon as possible, face to face. but remember, be kind, this will be one of the memories of you that remain with him, don't say anything that will keep hurting him.
hope this helps,
laura xxx
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ya that helped alot. i guess i have led him on, but i was really trying to make this relationship work, but it just isnt. and to make it all worse he says i love you all the time, and i feel sooo bad if i dont say it back.
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