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Q: please help.
i will try to make this short for you guys haha. My best friend who i've been friends with since kindergarten got her first boyfriend about a month ago.(we're freshman) Yeah, it's cute and everything, but holy mother of god it can get annoying. It's Sean this, Sean that (her bf). It's non stop details about them and how awesome everything is. All days it's "has he been looking at me...do you think he likes my shirt? what about my hair?" goodness... And then i have to hear about all the stuff he says to her about him loving her and stuff. and she sends me long emails and crap with buttloads of info about their conversations and i cannot take it. I've addressed her politely about it and we're open about things with one another, but she won't stop. IMAGINE NON-STOP QUESTIONS LIKE "ok if sean and my relationship were weighed on a scale on how much he likes me...would our relationship be a sumo wrestler or an annorexic girl?" Yeah. I ignored that one. And it sucks because i just broke up with someone recently and i hate that everything is shoved in my face like that. I am not in anyway jealous, and i know that because i am secure with myself and i do not wish to be in any sort or "relationship" right now. Help please. There are no signs that this mindless chatter between she and an annoyed, attempting-to-ignore-her-me , is going to die down anytime soon.

p.s. i am sorry it is so long. i know i said it wasnt going to be so long! =/

no its not to long its intresting actually. poor baby i know how you feel. youve got to explain to her that you know she loves her boyfriend, and that its fun to freak out when a boy likes you, but you just ended a relationship and its difficult for you. tell her you love her to death, and your not annoyed with her at all, but you are annoyed with all the Sean talk and you know your going to start resenting (hating) her if it dosent stop soon
good luck! tell me how it all works out!

Rating: 5

thanks so much! it honestly made me feel a ton better =] great advice.

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FRIENDS ARE LIKE ELEVATOR BUTTONS. THEY CAN EITHER BRING YOU UP OR TAKE YOU DOWN. CHOOSE WISELY
A friend will let you borrow their umbrella but a best friend will take yours and scream "Run Loser Run!!!"
we are all angels
with one wing
and we can wonly fly
with the help of somone else
my friends are my wings

TRUE FRIENDS
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND
DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET!

you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose! but you cant pick your friends nose

killers stab you in the head
Frenemies stab you in the back
boys stab you in the heart
but best friends dont carry knives

a best friend will never ever come to bail you out of jail so never use your one phone call on them
i tried that, but she wouldent pick up. when i got back to our jail cell, i asked her why she wouldent pick up her phone.

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