When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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i love getting high.Because i have alot of stress and depression but i dont tell people about it.So i get high to help me out.If i dont have pot i'll freak out an i'll act like im bipolor.What should i do?Should i just get help?Or should i get high anyways because pot doesnt really hurt me but just controll myself????? (link)
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Hey whats up?
That sounds really tough. Listen, maybe if you have someone to talk to when your feeling depressed and stressed out, that would help. I mean... a person always feels better when he simply lets everything out by talking to someone , knowing that the opposite person is listening, understanding, and sympathizing. Maybe thats exactly what you need. Don't you have a freind or a close person or a sister or a brother or anyone that you could confide in and trust? I mean, its all just about someone to give you the feeling that he's there for you, thats all. Try thinking of what i said and try finding that trustworthy someone who could help you . But for now, try your best to fight this obssession of getting high by maybe occupying your time with something, hanging out with freinds, getting one of those part time jobs, studying, taking up sports, writing,.. etc. And if it still doesn't work,maybe you should reduce the quantity one time after the other, and like control yourself. Maybe you could sleep for a much longer time to waste time. If this again doesn't work, then maybe you should tell your parents or someone with an uppper hand,so he could admit you to rihab or something, which would be really bad and hard. So if you made an effort to quit this with your own will, that would be better.
Try to think of it this way,does really some junk help you feel happy and high and great? Apart from the feeling it gives you at the spur of moment or even for a while after that. Does it like change things, make life better, make you successful, make you loved, make you a good person, or does it lead you to heaven?
If your so depressed and stressed out, then trust me, getting high is not what would lead you to happiness and having a good life. On the contrary, it would ruin your life, and a couple of years from now, you would be a crazy lunatic drug addict. I am not being harsh or mean. Infact, i understand exactly what your going through more than anyone.
And if you want help, contact me by a private message or email me would be better, and tell me everyhing, and complain and cry and tell me what lead you to doing this, and i will help you much better than those silly crap of drugs.
Take care and think things over.
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THANK YOU SO SO MUCH!!!I appreciated taking time an effort to help me out. :)
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